Dear Date Guy,

Why would a guy make-out with me, tell me how beautiful I am, tell me that he wants to spend more time with me and tell me that I should call him…and then when I do call him, he ignores me and doesn’t return my call? And what should I do?

-Belinda from San Francisco

Belinda,

Why would he say that to you? Because you are not the only girl that he’s making out with, calling pretty, and saying he wants to spend more time with.

If was was genuine in all that he has said, HE would call you instead of asking you to call him.  He’s already come to realize that he only has to put in minimal effort to get what he wants from you. 

My advice, next time when you are making out with him, tell him how hot you think that he is, that you like spending time with him and that you’ll call him. Then, DON’T call him. You will be able to turn the tables and get him thinking, “hum, did I do something wrong, why isn’t she calling me when she said she would?”  This will make him realize that minimal effort on his part won’t cut it anymore with you.  He’ll either step up or not.  This will let you know where you stand, then you can decide whether or not you want to date this guy.

-The Date Guy

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